It is our natural human tendency to proceed with caution. This might be necessary when it comes to blatant safety issues such as slippery floors or poorly lit roads, but what is our excuse for proceeding cautiously when it comes to the things that will improve the quality of our lives?
What do you want or need? Is it a new home? A better car? Employment? A mate? Now think about your approach to that thing that you hope for. Are you aggressively and assertively preparing for and or pursuing it, or are you tip toeing around it timidly hoping that it might happen, but secretly sabotaging yourself by not believing that you’ll ever truly get it. Or even worse, settling for less than what you really want.
Let’s combat this by changing our thinking and our language. Instead of thinking it as simply a want or a need, think of it as something that you believe for. Once you are able to wrap your head around that, begin to visualize yourself in that desired situation.
Now that you’ve got your mind right, it’s time to take a look at how you talk. It may simply be a matter of switching out the word “if” for the word “when”, for example, “When I get a new car, I’m going to pay for full coverage insurance six months in advance.” Isn’t that so much more powerful than saying, “If I get a new car I’m going to try to pay for full coverage insurance, but I might just get no fault insurance at first, because I’m broke.” In one simple sentence, you’ve already defeated yourself before you began.
I don’t think we realize just how powerful our words are. What is in our mind comes out of our mouth, and then goes into our ears and right back into our mind. Now if that message is filled with negativity, self-doubt and fear, then look at the sad self-induced cycle that we get caught up in.
Sometimes our hesitance to speak confidently is a result of our worries about how others view us. Don’t be driven by what other people might think if your vision doesn’t come to pass. It’s not about them, but you never know how hearing your strong faith may encourage or inspire them, so you very well may be doing them an injustice by not believing for what you want to receive and speaking accordingly.
I’ve told my mother the things that I’m going to do for her “WHEN I become a millionaire…” so many times, that when she got her last job she told her co-worker, “I’m only working here until my daughter becomes a millionaire.” You see, the boldness and the confidence that is infused in your words and your thoughts is contagious. You are not only setting up your life to receive the things that you believe for, but you are simultaneously motivating other people to have that same unwavering faith. So today I encourage you to mentally and verbally claim what is yours. Stop proceeding with caution and begin to proceed with confidence.